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Roller Coaster Feeling!

Sometimes I feel and think that I'm okay. But sometimes I am not. But I have heard mass yesterday and the priest shared that everything has an end. What I am feeling right now will also have an end. I don't know when but there's an end to this feeling.

I had a good rest today. But I still feel this kind of feeling. Still, life goes on. I just have to have a diversion of this feeling. I clean my room today. That's an achievement. I believe that I have a productive day today.

I am so bless. I am happy for that.

Makeup: What’s In, What’s Out

We all have stuff in our makeup box that’s been sitting there for God knows how long (at least I do). Sparkles from back in the day, and eye shadows that we probably shouldn’t even put on our skin. After all, we should all know that all products have a shelf life and eventually they expire. So if you’ve got stuff in there you don’t even remember wearing in the past year, it’s time to say goodbye. So clean out your makeup drawer and start stocking up on the stuff you really need this season.

In: A Matte Complexionget a matte complexion

This season it’s all about looking flawless and an almost greasy, dewy complexion is not the way to go. Instead, opt for a more subdued look that will give you compliments all year long.

Out: A Dewy Complexion

Save it for the summer time!

In: Natural Eyebrowsnatural eyebrows

It’s all about leaving your natural brows do their work and stop over-tweezing. This season it’s all about looking natural so let your brows have a chance!

Out: Super Arched Brows

You know exactly what I’m talking about: it’s just so fake!

In: Soft Lashessoft lashes

Stop piling on coat after coat of mascara. One coat of black or brown mascara is all you need: go for a more natural look.

Out: Piled on Lashes

Heavily mascarad lashes are not off the map but at least for this season keep it nice and simple.

In: Crimson Blush With a Sheenred cheeks

Go all out with rosy red cheeks this season ; it’s all the rage!

Out: Matte Orange Cheeks

Orange has never been a favorite color of mine and it’s not on your face either – it just looks too fake!

In: Letting Your Freckles Showfreckles are in

Let those beautiful freckles show by applying a sheer light tinted moisturizer to even out your skin tone.

Out: Covering Up Your Freckles

Don’t you dare hide those freckles: I wish I had them!

In: Cherry Red Lipscherry red lips

Sheer, cherry red lips complement every skin tone so go nuts!

Out: Bold Pink Lips

Stay away from bright pinks and such until the summer at least.

In: Chocolate Nail Polishchocolate nail polish

Sounds good enough to eat! This season it’s all about deep-toned nail polish such as burgundies and deep chocolates.

Out: Pink Nail Polish

Pink nail polish just doesn’t cut it this season; everything is way too luxurious for that. Again, save for summer.


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Missing him...

I miss him! I don't know but I miss him. But I guess we are not meant to be. sigh I believe that if he truly loves me, he would profess it immediately. But we've been together for so long now. But he did not want me.

It's okay. Even if I'm not okay right now but I will be okay. God has greater plans for me. He is my only hope.

I think he is happy right now. He has found a new love. He would not think about me. Why should he? I just hope that I would find the love that is really meant for me very soon.

Thinking Aloud...

I think I am waiting for nothing. Do I have to do another follow-up? I don't want to use force for him to response to me. I'm tired of that. It should be his initiative to do the things that he should be doing. I don't have to keep reminding him. He should be responsible enough. I don't want to get angry. I don't want to make an extra effort. I just let him be. I don't want to think about him anymore. sigh

So, what should I do now? Wait again for tomorrow hoping that he would send me a message? sigh again. Help!

25 Fascinating Love Facts

Love is mysterious, fascinating, and when you find it with the right person, there's nothing better. Here are 25 surprising love facts to puzzle over and embrace.

Love is a many-splendored thing … and a very surprising thing, too. As if you needed proof of that, here are 25 funny little facts about love. Study them, scratch your head over them, and share them with someone you fancy.

1. Men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those who don't.

2. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)

3. When it comes to doing the deed early in the relationship, 78 percent of women would decline an intimate rendezvous if they had not shaved their legs or underarms.

4. Feminist women are more likely than other females to be in a romantic relationship.

5. Two-thirds of people report that they fall in love with someone they've known for some time vs. someone that they just met.

6. There's a reason why office romances occur: The single biggest predictor of love is proximity.

7. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover's memory.

8. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear. You see the same physiological responses — pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and increased heart rate.

9. Brain scans show that people who view photos of a beloved experience an activation of the caudate — the part of the brain involving cravings.

10. The women of the Tiwi tribe in the South Pacific are married at birth.

11. The "Love Detector" service from Korean cell phone operator KTF uses technology that is supposed to analyze voice patterns to see if a lover is speaking honestly and with affection. Users later receive an analysis of the conversation delivered through text message that breaks down the amount of affection, surprise, concentration and honesty of the other speaker.

12. Eleven percent of women have gone online and done research on a person they were dating or were about to meet, versus seven percent of men.

13. Couples' personalities converge over time to make partners more and more similar.

14. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.

15. The tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy.

16. Forty-three percent of women prefer their partners never sign "love" to a card unless they are ready for commitment.

17. People who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin — as low as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that's why it's so easy to feel obsessed when you're smitten.

18. Philadelphia International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love connection, according to an online survey.

19. According to mathematical theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that provides the best chance that you'll make a love match.

20. A man's beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex.

21. Every Valentine's Day, Verona, the Italian city where Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet took place, receives around 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet.

22. When we get dumped, for a period of time we love the person who rejected us even more, says Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and author of Why We Love. The brain regions that lit up when we were in a happy union continue to be active.

23. Familiarity breeds comfort and closeness … and romance.

24. One in five long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with others.

25. OK, this one may not surprise you, but we had to share it: Having a romantic relationship makes both genders happier. The stronger the commitment, the greater the happiness!

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Back Together...

I surrender! I just have to accept him as he is. He may be annoying most of the time but I can't push him away anymore. He always comes back. I don't know what his role in my life but I have to accept that he is still here close to me. I don't know how long he will stay but I just have to let him stay by my side. I don't know what the future holds for us but whatever it is, I will stop fighting whatever it is.

At least now, my heart is okay. It is light and I want to stay it as it is. I don't have to worry for tomorrow for God is already there. I'm not expecting anymore so much from him unlike before. And I don't want anymore to push him into doing things that I want. It is better that way. It keeps my heart from being broken.

I had a good day today. Hoping tomorrow would still a better one.

Unwinding...

Shopping makes me relax. It's a sort of recreation for me. he he I feel good whenever I buy something even if it is just little things.

Last Saturday I went to the mall with a friend. Our plans was to watch a movie since we have a free ticket. But when we saw the movies being shown we didn't like it that much so we agreed to tour around. Well, good for me I was able to buy a new pair of shoes and a watch. he he

I love it! I super love it! I love what I shop!

Time to let go...

I think the time has finally arrived for me to let go of the things that occupied me for the longest time. It is hard for me because I get used to it. My life used to revolved around it. But since it is not healthy for me anymore, I have to set things free. To stop holding on things that doesn't make me happy anymore.

I have to do this for my own benefit or else I will totally loose myself. It is sad and very hard but I can get used to this. God is good. I need not worry much. I just pray that He will guide me always and show me the right thing to do.

I think this is the best decision that I'm making. Just the right thing to do. And I think that it is just right. I don't know what's in store for me tomorrow but for now, I'm glad that I am brave enough to do this. I am saving myself. I should love myself more. I'm happy I made this choice! =)

Accessorize for the Holidays..

To find the perfect accessories for the holidays, you first must find the perfect dress. So pick a dress that you absolutely love and stick to it. Then, get to work on finding the best accessories. Here are some dos and dont’s.

Don’t Overdo It

Choose focal pieces, instead of over-accessorizing. Think bold instead of quantity. Try chandelier earrings, bold cuffs, multi-layer necklaces and cocktail rings — but not all at the same time. A good rule of thumb is not to put items too close together on the body. Instead of big earrings AND a big necklace, try big earrings and a cocktail ring.

Keep Day Accessories Separate From Evening Accessories

Shine (metallics, patent, embellishment) is always good for dressing up an outfit and going from day to evening. Leave the beat-up leather boots or shoulder bag you wear every day to the office at home.

You Don’t Have to Match

You can mix metallics and different styles of accessories, as long as there is cohesion in the outfit. Bags and shoes do not have to be the same color. The general rule to follow? Choose one in a color or pattern and the other in a neutral (and remember! Metallics ARE neutrals).

Importance of Size

If you are larger in stature go for bigger pieces. Don’t wear anything so small that it simply gets lost on you. Conversely, if you are smaller, don’t wear pieces that are so big, it looks like you are drowning in decoration. Save that for the tree.

Resist Holiday Colors

Just like red and green are colors to avoid at Christmas, resist “seasonal accessories” which include but are not limited to, ceramic reindeer or turkey pins, Christmas tree and candy cane earrings, mistletoe brooches and pilgrim hats (unless you are in a school play). Buy timeless, beautiful, interesting jewelry that will last you throughout the year with oodles of outfits, not just for November and December.

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How to Wear Jeggings..

With the return of super skinny jeans and leggings this past couple of years, it’s no wonder the jeggings were invented. Jeggings are basically an exremely skinny jeans that look like leggings and are also weared like leggings.

How to Wear Jeggings

I have to say that in the beginning I was not a fan of the skinny jean or the legging, but as time went on, I came to embrace both, and now, it seems like I can’t even wear any other types of jeans but skinny. The problem with these slim types of bottoms is that they’re hard to dress. And jeggings especially, can be a little tricky.

A Few Thumb Rules

First off, make sure jeggings suit your body type. If you don’t feel comfortable in them, don’t wear them – no one’s going to shun you for it!! Second, pick a dark pair that will go with everything from a basic tank to a sweater dress. Also, black slims you down so that’s always a plus. If you’re on the short side, you may want to get a petite pair as a regular pair of jeggings might run a little too long, and there’s nothing worse than 2 feet of bunched up jeans at the bottom.

So What Exactly Can You Wear Jeggings With?

How to Wear Jeggings

Jeggings are actually quite versatile, and I feel they do a better job than skinny jeans or leggings would. Because they’re still denim material, you don’t have to cover your butt, but they’re so slim and skin-tight like leggings that you can wear a long sweater or tee, a dress, or just throw a long cardigan over.

I love wearing leggings with a pair of chunky heels, a long sweater and a scarf. Add a big tote to that, and you’re set for the day. So if you’re heading to the mall this week, make sure to pick up a pair of jeggings: it’s all you’ll need!

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Energy Lyrics - Keri Hilson

[Intro]
Ooh ooh,
Oh ohh,
Ohh yeah, yeah.

[Verse 1]
I wish i could rip out a page of my memory cause i put to much energy im him and me, can't wait till i get through this faze cause it's killin me to bad we can't rewirte our own history

[Hook]
Such a mystery,
When he's here with me,
It's hard to believe I'm still lonely,
Chances fadin' now,
Patience runnin' out,
This ain't how it's supposed to be.

[Chorus]
I'm havin' nightmares from sleepin' with the enemy, (enemy) (no no)
How do we reverse the chemistry? (chemistry)
I don't want us to be the end of me
This love is takin' all of my energy, (energy)
Energy, (energy)
My energy, (energy)
Takin' all of my energy, (energy)
Energy, (energy)
My energy, (energy)
Takin' all of (my energy).

[Verse 2]
Seems only like yesterday, (day)
Not even gravity could keep your feet off the ground when you're with me, (you're with me)
How can two be as one? have become so divided now?
There's no use hidin' from misery, (no).

[Hook]
Such a mystery,
When he's here with me,
It's hard to believe I'm still lonely,
Chances fadin' now,
Patience runnin' out,
This ain't how it's supposed to be.

[Chorus]
I'm havin' nightmares from sleepin' with the enemy, (enemy) (oh ohh)
How do we reverse the chemistry? (chemistry) (how do we)
I don't want us to be end of me (me yeah)
This love is takin' all of my energy, (energy) (all of my energy)
Energy, (energy)
My energy, (energy)
Takin' all of my energy, (energy)
Energy, (energy)
My energy, (energy)
Taking all of...

(Oh oh)

Now I can feel you changin me
and I can't afford to slip much further
from the person I was meant to be (ohohohohoho)

I'm not afraid to walk alone
not giving up but moving on
before it gets to deep
cause your taking all of my energy


[Chorus]
I'm havin' nightmares from sleepin' with the enemy, (enemy) (oooh)
How do we reverse the chemistry? (chemistry) (oooh)
I don't want us to be the enemy,
This love is takin' all of my energy (energy) (all of my energy).

I'm havin' nightmares from sleepin' with the enemy, (enemy) (ohh ohh)
How do we reverse the chemistry? (chemistry) (ohh)
I don't want us to be the end of me,
This love is takin' all of my energy, (energy)
Energy, (energy)
My energy, (energy) (oooh ohh)
Takin' all of my energy, (energy)
Energy, (energy)
My energy, (energy) (takin' all of me)
Takin' all of...

You're killin me ,
You're takin' all of me, yeah, oh ohh.

(This love is takin' all of my energy.)

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So blue...

I am hurting deep inside. I have to make a big decision in my life and I have to stand for it. He has to learn a lesson. The cycle should stop. I am sad but I have to do this for my sake.

It's hard for me to ignore him. To stop our communication but I think this is the wisest thing that I should do. He doesn't care about me, anyway. It's always about him. His feelings, his problems. How about me? I have my own feelings too.

It cuts like a knife. I want to cry but I can't. The pain is killing me. No one can help me. I am the only one who can feel it. But I am taking it as it is. God is good. Everything happens for a reason. I will be okay.

Southwestern Ribs with a Rub

These pork ribs are smeared with a peppery rub, slathered with barbecue sauce, then grilled over mesquite chips for a great smoke flavor. Serve with baked beans and your favorite coleslaw on the side. Invite some friends over to share this delectable summertime meal and enjoy a fun and relaxing evening together.

ingredients

  • 4 cups mesquite wood chips
  • 1 cup ketchup
  • 1/2 cup light-colored corn syrup
  • 1/4 cup white vinegar
  • 1/4 cup packed brown sugar
  • 1/4 cup finely chopped onion
  • 2 tablespoons yellow mustard
  • 1-1/2 teaspoons Worcestershire sauce
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1/2 teaspoon coarsely ground black pepper
  • 1/2 teaspoon bottled hot pepper sauce
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground cumin or chili powder
  • 1/8 teaspoon cayenne pepper
  • 4 pounds pork loin back ribs
  • 1 recipe Rib Rub (see recipe below)
  • directions

    1. At least 1 hour before grilling, soak wood chips in enough water to cover.
    2. For sauce, in a 1-1/2-quart saucepan, combine ketchup, corn syrup, white vinegar, brown sugar, onion, mustard, Worcestershire sauce, garlic, black pepper, hot pepper sauce, cumin or chili powder, and cayenne pepper. Bring to boiling; reduce heat. Simmer, uncovered, for 25 to 30 minutes or until thickened, stirring occasionally.
    3. Cut the ribs into serving-size pieces. Sprinkle Rib Rub evenly over all sides of ribs; rub in with your fingers.
    4. Drain wood chips. In a grill with a cover, arrange medium-hot coals around a drip pan. Test for medium heat above pan. Put some of the drained mesquite chips onto coals. Place ribs, bone sides down, on grill rack over pan. Cover and grill for 1-1/2 to 1-3/4 hours or until ribs are tender, adding more coals and remaining mesquite chips as needed. Brush ribs with some of the sauce during the last 10 minutes of grilling. Pass remaining sauce. Makes 4 to 6 servings.
    5. Rib Rub: In a blender container or small food processor bowl combine 2 teaspoons dried rosemary, 2 teaspoons dried thyme, 2 teaspoons dried minced onion, 2 teaspoons dried minced garlic, 1 teaspoon coarse salt, and 3/4 teaspoon ground black pepper. Blend or process until coarsely ground.
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Chorizo Corn Bread Stuffing

Southern-style corn bread stuffing takes on spicy chorizo sausage, fennel, and minced garlic in this not-so-ordinary stuffing. Ruby-red cranberries also make a special appearance, adding some zing and flecks of crimson to this side dish favorite. When selecting fennel, choose bulbs that have a good white and green coloring void of brown or rust spots.

ingredients

  • 15 to 16 oz. uncooked Chorizo sausage
  • 1/2 cup butter
  • 2 large onions, chopped (2 cups)
  • 2 medium fennel bulbs, trimmed, cored, and cut into thin wedges, or 2 large apples, cored and chopped (2 cups)
  • 3/4 cup chopped celery
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 16-oz. pkg. corn bread stuffing mix
  • 1 cup dry-roasted salted pistachio nuts
  • 3/4 cup dried cranberries
  • 1 14-oz. can reduced-sodium chicken broth
  • 2 eggs, lightly beaten
  • directions

    1. Preheat oven to 350F. Grease twelve 8- to 10-ounce casseroles or a 13x9x2-inch baking pan or dish; set aside. In a large skillet cook sausage 10 to 15 minutes until cooked through, stirring to break up sausage; drain off fat. Transfer sausage to bowl, set aside. Carefully wipe out skillet.
    2. Melt butter in the skillet over medium heat. Add onions, fennel (if using), celery, and garlic. Cook in hot butter 10 to 15 minutes or until tender, stirring occasionally. Add apples (if using); cook and stir 2 minutes. Add vegetable mixture, stuffing mix, nuts, and cranberries to sausage in bowl; toss to combine. In medium bowl combine broth and eggs; add to sausage mixture. Toss to combine. (For moister stuffing, add 1/2 cup water.)
    3. Transfer to prepared dish or pan. Cover, bake 20 minutes for individual casseroles (35 minutes for large). Uncover, bake 10 to 15 minutes more or until heated through (165F) and top is lightly browned. Makes 12 servings.
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Lunch date!

I had a lunch date yesterday with one of my best friends, My! I miss her so much! She has a family of her own and I thought that I could not disturb her anytime I wanted. It's really a different feeling to be connected with your long time friend. There's a different bond between the two of us.

Although before, we have our misunderstandings but we were very young back then. It's a college drama. I've realized that it really strengthens the ties between two people when they are bonding together like eating out and going to malls together. These things will move you closer to each other and get familiar with each other more. You will feel more relax and uninhibited. You tend to open up more also.

Familiarity counts a lot in every relationship. Still, there should be respect and trust in both parties. My and I were planning to make our friendship deeper by going out of town soon when the time is free for the both of us. But simple lunch date is good enough to re-bond!

Not meant...

The last time, I had a hangover over a jacket. But I guess, it was not meant for me.. I don't really like it that much. It doesn't fit me well. I just like the brand. Anyways, I found a new jacket I really like. I also like the color. There was only one left. I did not buy it right away because I don't want to spend anymore. Overnight I was thinking about it. We went back to the store again and I was thinking if it was still there, it was meant for me. To my surprise, it was still there. So I bought it right away. I feel that if I will not buy it I will regret it for the rest of my life. he he I guess it was really meant for me.

Some things happen for a reason. If it is really meant for you then it would be for you. If it is not meant, no matter how much you like or love it or whatever you do to have it, it would not be yours. And you will learn that the ending of it is much better. You will end up much happier.

I am more happier with my new jacket. I love it so much. It's a good thing that I wasn't able to get the first one I found. That was not meant for me...

One Man..

There's only one guy who is close to me at this time. He is very visible in my life even though he is far away. I am happy whenever I hear from him. But the sad point about it is that when he finally meets the girl he truly loves, I will be left alone and no one will catch me. sigh! That's the ugly truth. And another ugly truth is that he is not professing his love to me. sigh!

I don't know who I'll gonna end up with but I hope and pray that I will not be left alone. My uncle and neighbors are already asking me when I'm going to marry. That I don't know. I can't answer that question. That is also a big question to me.

Even though I'm scared, I am still hoping that I could find him soon. I am thinking positive!

How to Wear Plaid..

You’ve undoubtedly seen plaid styles all over the shelves this past summer and you’re more than likely going to see it in the fall as well. But most of us just think of lumberjacks whenever we see plaid and so because of that, it can be hard to incorporate it into our style. Here’s the 411 on how you can wear plaid successfully.

Plaid Dress

Plaid Dress Ensembles

Don’t be afraid to wear something unconventional…it might just work for you! Plaid tunic dresses are very hot right now and you can wear one with a pair of tights or leggings and knee-high boots.

Plaid Frilly Top

Frilly Plaid Tops and Dresses

Wear that silky, frilly, plaid top with a pair of black pants (get the plaid top in a somewhat bright color, it will go amazing with the black). Throw a boxy jacket on top and you’re looking fabulous!

Button-Down Shirt

Button Down Plaid Shirt

Ok so whenever you see these types of shirts the first thing that comes to mind is Farmer Jack, right? Well no worries, you can actually dress up this farmer shirt by pairing it up with neutral colors and basic denim. Add a pair of chunky heels and you’re good to go!

Plaid Tank

Plaid Tank

I absolutely love this cute plaid tank that you can wear either during the day or at night when going out. Pair with jeans or liquid leggings and a pair of heels. Make sure you keep the accessories to a minimum since the top is already pretty heavy.

Plaid Ruffled

Ruffled Top Outfit

If you go for a plaid ruffled top look, pair with jeans or a pencil skirt and knee-high boots or flats. Accessorize just a tiny little bit with gold for an extra kick.

Cowl Neck Plaid

Plaid Cowl Neck Shirt

Cowl necks are usually reserved for more classy outfits, but a plaid cowel neck top can look very fun and flirty with a pencil skirt, dress pants, jeans, or a mini.

Delicate Plaid

Plaid Top

Feminine, delicate plaid tops can look cute if paired with the right items. Rock a delicate plaid top with distressed denim and a pair of heels to keep it cute and sexy.

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Expert Tips for Getting the Short Haircut You Want..


That long, straggly hair is so seventh grade. Now, even models are getting chopped—so break out the scissors and lighten up.

Hairstyles are like hemlines: Everything that goes down must come up. “People get tired of long, long hair,” declares hairstylist Serge Normant of the Serge Normant at John Frieda salon in New York City, who created the looks on these pages. “The trend is toward shorter hair.” Here’s where we’d normally say that the trend is not just any short haircut, it’s this short haircut. But we’ll refrain this time. “Depending on where you started, short hair can now mean anything from shoulder length to two inches long,” says Normant, who rejects the idea that face shape or body type should factor into the decision. “Anyone can wear short hair—it’s a question of your personality, not the height of your cheekbones.”
If a major crop intimidates you, start at shoulder length and take it in stages. And if you are flirting with going to extremes, there are easy ways to figure out whether you’re really ready to lose a full six inches. Hairstylist Sam McKnight offers this advice: “If you wear your hair up in a ponytail or a bun more often than you wear it down, you’re definitely ready.”

THE CUTOFF

When model Siri Tollerod (pictured) wanted to chop off her hair, she turned to Serge Normant. He snipped it to collarbone level, made it shorter in the back, and layered it all around on the bottom inch. “The cut appears to be one length but doesn’t look heavy,” he says. Colorist Gina Gilbert added blonde highlights to play up the layers. “Now my hair has shape and swing, and it looks thicker,” Tollerod says.

GOING SHOULDER-LENGTH

Shape Up.
Though most hairstylists, including Normant, are generally allergic to rules about facial structure and haircuts, they do believe that if you have an angular face, you should ask your stylist for soft, face-framing layers, and if you have a round face, you should try blunt ends. If you’re in between, get allover layers. “And avoid bangs if you have a tiny forehead—they make it look smaller,” says Normant.

Get Dirty.
To avoid soccer-mom comparisons, try messing up your hair, suggests Chris McMillan of Chris McMillan, The Salon in Beverly Hills. “Don’t wash it every day. It looks best when it has a little roughness to it.”

Lower the Heat
. The big mistake people make with a shoulder-length cut is overstyling—particularly with a round brush and a blow-dryer. “You have to be careful not to let this cut look matronly,” says Normant. “Unless you want a sleek, stylized look”—like the one on the opposite page—“don’t curl the ends under; instead, blow-dry them straight.”

Explore Your Options.
Take advantage of the versatility of shoulder-length hair by trying new styles: “Tease volume at the crown, slick it back, change your part, do a low ponytail—you can really play
around with this length,” says Normant.

GOING CHIN-LENGTH

Study the Classics.
If you can’t decide which particular cut you want, “try a bob without bangs,” says McKnight. “It flatters almost everyone.” To update it, ask for a cut with angled layers: “It’s softer than a regular bob and just long enough to tuck behind the ears—giving the look some variety.” If you have very curly hair, “leave a few extra inches to account for the curls,” says Normant.

Man Up.
For an edgier look, keep the front sections chin-length, but trim the back so it’s no longer than your hairline. “Keeping the hair around the neck boyish and short is sexy,” says McMillan. “And you’ll still have long sections to style.” This shape makes fine hair fuller.

Go Big.
The pros warn against loading products on short hair, but if there’s no weight or texture, it can get too puffy. “The best product for this length is a volumizer,” says Normant. “Spray a little at the crown when hair is damp, then blow it out or let it air-dry, depending on how polished you want the hair to look.”

GOING SUPER-SHORT

Bring Visual Aids.
Tearing out a picture of the cut that inspired you is important with boy-short hair. “If you say ‘pixie,’ you might be thinking four inches while I’m thinking one inch, and that’s a big difference,” says McMillan. “But if you show me a photo of Jean Seberg or Agyness Deyn, I know what you’re expecting.”

Go Top-heavy.
For a sculptural short cut, ask your stylist to trim the sides and back of your hair to no more than two inches long and leave the top section at six or seven inches. “It’s an update on the cut Linda Evangelista used to have—you can vary it even more by adding layers on top,” says McMillan. These long layers can be swept to one side or styled into the hair, so “if it doesn’t look good one way, try another.”

Flatter Yourself
. To emphasize the cheekbones, “add layers that angle toward them,” says hairstylist Oscar Blandi of the Oscar Blandi Salon in New York City. “And highlights can thicken the hair so it’s easier to style.”

Know When to Grow.
“If you have cowlicks, keep the hair at least three inches long, or it will get too spiky,” says Blandi. And if your hair is very curly, “make sure the longest pieces are at least two inches long. Any shorter and you risk looking like you have a head of broccoli.”

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Time-Out!

I need a break from him. He is so bossy! I'm tired of that. Is it always me who will understand? Me who will cater to his wants and needs? Do I have to excuse that he is not in the mood because he has many things on his mind and he is so busy with his work? That he displaced his anger and frustrations to me? I don't think so. He also need to understand that.

I have also my feelings. I have my own problems. My own needs. But I don't let it get in the way of my relationship with other people. I know how to handle it in a proper way. Can't he do that? I think he is selfish. He just thinks of his own happiness. I hope he realized that. Anyways, we just need a break from each other. To think things over.

I need a man who will love me no matter what. I need a loving and caring partner who would support and understand me as much as I care about him. To make a relationship work, it must be a two way process. I've learned that no matter how much you love the person but he is not making you happy also, the time will come that you will get tired and fed up. It happens to me. I don't know what other girls think...