I may be hurting right now. I may feel sad and lonely but I know that time heals all wounds. In God's perfect time I will be healed. I may have some questions in my mind if I've made the right decision. But I believe that I made the right one.
Sometimes it is hard to let go of someone you love but if the pain is too much. There's no point of staying. I may be missing him. But I think that I am in a better place right now. God is good. Someday in God's perfect time, He will reveal to me the right love for me. I don't have to question His will. I just have to trust His heart...
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
I've learned!
I got stinky, I got dirty. But you see I learned! It's all over now. And that's what's important. I don't have to look back on it.
I hope that the days ahead will be beautiful and wonderful. I hope that I will be able to find the love that is right for me.
I have to love and respect myself more. I will not allow anyone to look down on me and insult me. I am a child of God. And my worth is big. I forgive all the people who have hurt me. I'm beginning a new chapter of my life. God is good all the time!
I hope that the days ahead will be beautiful and wonderful. I hope that I will be able to find the love that is right for me.
I have to love and respect myself more. I will not allow anyone to look down on me and insult me. I am a child of God. And my worth is big. I forgive all the people who have hurt me. I'm beginning a new chapter of my life. God is good all the time!
Men are from Mars...
Today, a friend of mine came up to me. She needs me badly. She was crying uncontrollably. Her boyfriend of eight years broke up with her without reason at all. Imagine how long they've been together? And just like that he broke up with her? She was left hanging. All along she thought that everything was fine. Then he just dropped the bomb. He does not want to have the relationship anymore. He does not feel that he loves her anymore. I am just wondering what is love right now. For me, I think love is more than a feeling. Sometimes you don't feel it but still you keep the relationship because you want it. It is a decision you do everyday. To stay in the relationship and the love will just flows back in.
I just wondered why guys are like that? When they decided to end up a relationship they just do it that fast. Are they thinking about their actions? Are they that insensitive? She was told that he needed space. What's that? An excuse of breaking up? Did he not think of all the years they've been together? She was there on his lowest points and now that he is up, he gradually changes his mind?
I don't really know what's happening between the two of them. But still, it's a shocking news. Sometimes, boys are hard to understand. They sometimes think of themselves more. They just do whatever they want to do. That is why we women should not rely on them one hundred percent. We should still be independent and can stand on our own. We should not stop and give up our dreams for them because they could ruin our lives just like that. They could turn around and leave us behind.
Still, don't get me wrong. I still believe in love and happy ever after. I guess that if you are not meant to be, these things happen. It is just unfair sometimes. But life is like that. There are reasons behind all of these. We may not understand it now but the time will come that all our questions will be answered. We just have to keep on going and believe that someday the right love will finally come our way.
To my friend, I will be here. I will accompany you on these dark days of your life. Cheer up!
I just wondered why guys are like that? When they decided to end up a relationship they just do it that fast. Are they thinking about their actions? Are they that insensitive? She was told that he needed space. What's that? An excuse of breaking up? Did he not think of all the years they've been together? She was there on his lowest points and now that he is up, he gradually changes his mind?
I don't really know what's happening between the two of them. But still, it's a shocking news. Sometimes, boys are hard to understand. They sometimes think of themselves more. They just do whatever they want to do. That is why we women should not rely on them one hundred percent. We should still be independent and can stand on our own. We should not stop and give up our dreams for them because they could ruin our lives just like that. They could turn around and leave us behind.
Still, don't get me wrong. I still believe in love and happy ever after. I guess that if you are not meant to be, these things happen. It is just unfair sometimes. But life is like that. There are reasons behind all of these. We may not understand it now but the time will come that all our questions will be answered. We just have to keep on going and believe that someday the right love will finally come our way.
To my friend, I will be here. I will accompany you on these dark days of your life. Cheer up!
Realizations on Love...
Since it is the love month, I'll be talking about Love. I've met up with my girl friends last night. It's been awhile since we've seen each other. I miss them. Even though it was only a few months since we've seen each other, a lot of things happened to our individual lives especially in our love life. Here are some realizations:
1. Love is a two way process. If you have given your all and the other party is still not doing his part. Then it is time to let go.
2. Love comes in the most unexpected places.
3. Don't expect too much to the promises of the one you love. They fail most of the time. You will be left frustrated.
4. Love yourself.
5. If there's a will there's a way.
6. The truth will set you free.
7. Love conquers all.
8. If you love someone set him free, if he comes back he's yours. If he will not, then you are not meant for each other right from the start.
9. Love is blind.
10. Don't makes excuses for the person you love. If you feel that something is wrong, don't deny it. Instead face it.
11. Cherish the moment with the one you love.
12. It is better to love and lost than never to love at all.
13. Love is patient. Love is kind.
14. Don't give up on love.
1. Love is a two way process. If you have given your all and the other party is still not doing his part. Then it is time to let go.
2. Love comes in the most unexpected places.
3. Don't expect too much to the promises of the one you love. They fail most of the time. You will be left frustrated.
4. Love yourself.
5. If there's a will there's a way.
6. The truth will set you free.
7. Love conquers all.
8. If you love someone set him free, if he comes back he's yours. If he will not, then you are not meant for each other right from the start.
9. Love is blind.
10. Don't makes excuses for the person you love. If you feel that something is wrong, don't deny it. Instead face it.
11. Cherish the moment with the one you love.
12. It is better to love and lost than never to love at all.
13. Love is patient. Love is kind.
14. Don't give up on love.
Love Month!
It's February once again. It's the L-O-V-E month. Valentines day is fast approaching. Love will surely be on the air.
I don't have any plans yet for that day. I think I will just spend it with my family. I don't have someone special to spend it with anyway. But it's okay. I am more than happy now. There are times that I feel lonely and sad but I can get over it. I feel like I'm free now coming from a cage that I put myself in. It's good to be free. It is so refreshing. No words can express my feelings. No regrets!
Still, I'm into Love. Love is the greatest thing of all. We should share our love not only to our significant other but also to our family and friends whose love for us is more constant. Happy Love month everyone! Cheers! Love love love... =)
I don't have any plans yet for that day. I think I will just spend it with my family. I don't have someone special to spend it with anyway. But it's okay. I am more than happy now. There are times that I feel lonely and sad but I can get over it. I feel like I'm free now coming from a cage that I put myself in. It's good to be free. It is so refreshing. No words can express my feelings. No regrets!
Still, I'm into Love. Love is the greatest thing of all. We should share our love not only to our significant other but also to our family and friends whose love for us is more constant. Happy Love month everyone! Cheers! Love love love... =)
Missing him...
I miss him! I don't know but I miss him. But I guess we are not meant to be. sigh I believe that if he truly loves me, he would profess it immediately. But we've been together for so long now. But he did not want me.
It's okay. Even if I'm not okay right now but I will be okay. God has greater plans for me. He is my only hope.
I think he is happy right now. He has found a new love. He would not think about me. Why should he? I just hope that I would find the love that is really meant for me very soon.
It's okay. Even if I'm not okay right now but I will be okay. God has greater plans for me. He is my only hope.
I think he is happy right now. He has found a new love. He would not think about me. Why should he? I just hope that I would find the love that is really meant for me very soon.
25 Fascinating Love Facts
Love is mysterious, fascinating, and when you find it with the right person, there's nothing better. Here are 25 surprising love facts to puzzle over and embrace.
2. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)
3. When it comes to doing the deed early in the relationship, 78 percent of women would decline an intimate rendezvous if they had not shaved their legs or underarms.
4. Feminist women are more likely than other females to be in a romantic relationship.
5. Two-thirds of people report that they fall in love with someone they've known for some time vs. someone that they just met.
6. There's a reason why office romances occur: The single biggest predictor of love is proximity.
7. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover's memory.
8. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear. You see the same physiological responses — pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and increased heart rate.
9. Brain scans show that people who view photos of a beloved experience an activation of the caudate — the part of the brain involving cravings.
10. The women of the Tiwi tribe in the South Pacific are married at birth.
11. The "Love Detector" service from Korean cell phone operator KTF uses technology that is supposed to analyze voice patterns to see if a lover is speaking honestly and with affection. Users later receive an analysis of the conversation delivered through text message that breaks down the amount of affection, surprise, concentration and honesty of the other speaker.
12. Eleven percent of women have gone online and done research on a person they were dating or were about to meet, versus seven percent of men.
13. Couples' personalities converge over time to make partners more and more similar.
14. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.
15. The tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy.
16. Forty-three percent of women prefer their partners never sign "love" to a card unless they are ready for commitment.
17. People who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin — as low as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that's why it's so easy to feel obsessed when you're smitten.
18. Philadelphia International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love connection, according to an online survey.
19. According to mathematical theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that provides the best chance that you'll make a love match.
20. A man's beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex.
21. Every Valentine's Day, Verona, the Italian city where Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet took place, receives around 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet.
22. When we get dumped, for a period of time we love the person who rejected us even more, says Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and author of Why We Love. The brain regions that lit up when we were in a happy union continue to be active.
23. Familiarity breeds comfort and closeness … and romance.
24. One in five long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with others.
25. OK, this one may not surprise you, but we had to share it: Having a romantic relationship makes both genders happier. The stronger the commitment, the greater the happiness!
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Love is a many-splendored thing … and a very surprising thing, too. As if you needed proof of that, here are 25 funny little facts about love. Study them, scratch your head over them, and share them with someone you fancy.
1. Men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those who don't.2. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)
3. When it comes to doing the deed early in the relationship, 78 percent of women would decline an intimate rendezvous if they had not shaved their legs or underarms.
4. Feminist women are more likely than other females to be in a romantic relationship.
5. Two-thirds of people report that they fall in love with someone they've known for some time vs. someone that they just met.
6. There's a reason why office romances occur: The single biggest predictor of love is proximity.
7. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover's memory.
8. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear. You see the same physiological responses — pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and increased heart rate.
9. Brain scans show that people who view photos of a beloved experience an activation of the caudate — the part of the brain involving cravings.
10. The women of the Tiwi tribe in the South Pacific are married at birth.
11. The "Love Detector" service from Korean cell phone operator KTF uses technology that is supposed to analyze voice patterns to see if a lover is speaking honestly and with affection. Users later receive an analysis of the conversation delivered through text message that breaks down the amount of affection, surprise, concentration and honesty of the other speaker.
12. Eleven percent of women have gone online and done research on a person they were dating or were about to meet, versus seven percent of men.
13. Couples' personalities converge over time to make partners more and more similar.
14. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.
15. The tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy.
16. Forty-three percent of women prefer their partners never sign "love" to a card unless they are ready for commitment.
17. People who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin — as low as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that's why it's so easy to feel obsessed when you're smitten.
18. Philadelphia International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love connection, according to an online survey.
19. According to mathematical theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that provides the best chance that you'll make a love match.
20. A man's beard grows fastest when he anticipates sex.
21. Every Valentine's Day, Verona, the Italian city where Shakespeare's play Romeo and Juliet took place, receives around 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet.
22. When we get dumped, for a period of time we love the person who rejected us even more, says Dr. Helen Fisher of Rutgers University and author of Why We Love. The brain regions that lit up when we were in a happy union continue to be active.
23. Familiarity breeds comfort and closeness … and romance.
24. One in five long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with others.
25. OK, this one may not surprise you, but we had to share it: Having a romantic relationship makes both genders happier. The stronger the commitment, the greater the happiness!
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Back Together...
I surrender! I just have to accept him as he is. He may be annoying most of the time but I can't push him away anymore. He always comes back. I don't know what his role in my life but I have to accept that he is still here close to me. I don't know how long he will stay but I just have to let him stay by my side. I don't know what the future holds for us but whatever it is, I will stop fighting whatever it is.
At least now, my heart is okay. It is light and I want to stay it as it is. I don't have to worry for tomorrow for God is already there. I'm not expecting anymore so much from him unlike before. And I don't want anymore to push him into doing things that I want. It is better that way. It keeps my heart from being broken.
I had a good day today. Hoping tomorrow would still a better one.
At least now, my heart is okay. It is light and I want to stay it as it is. I don't have to worry for tomorrow for God is already there. I'm not expecting anymore so much from him unlike before. And I don't want anymore to push him into doing things that I want. It is better that way. It keeps my heart from being broken.
I had a good day today. Hoping tomorrow would still a better one.
So blue...
I am hurting deep inside. I have to make a big decision in my life and I have to stand for it. He has to learn a lesson. The cycle should stop. I am sad but I have to do this for my sake.
It's hard for me to ignore him. To stop our communication but I think this is the wisest thing that I should do. He doesn't care about me, anyway. It's always about him. His feelings, his problems. How about me? I have my own feelings too.
It cuts like a knife. I want to cry but I can't. The pain is killing me. No one can help me. I am the only one who can feel it. But I am taking it as it is. God is good. Everything happens for a reason. I will be okay.
It's hard for me to ignore him. To stop our communication but I think this is the wisest thing that I should do. He doesn't care about me, anyway. It's always about him. His feelings, his problems. How about me? I have my own feelings too.
It cuts like a knife. I want to cry but I can't. The pain is killing me. No one can help me. I am the only one who can feel it. But I am taking it as it is. God is good. Everything happens for a reason. I will be okay.
New Realizations..
I admit that I love him but I realized that....
1. My life should not revolve around him.
2. I should continue making steps in my life.
3. I have to continue to reach my dreams.
4. I should not stop my world and kept on thinking and depending on him to make my world whole.
5. Whatever the future holds for the two of us, only God knows. I should not think about it too much.
6. I should not expect too much from him.
7. I should love myself.
8. Pray harder!
1. My life should not revolve around him.
2. I should continue making steps in my life.
3. I have to continue to reach my dreams.
4. I should not stop my world and kept on thinking and depending on him to make my world whole.
5. Whatever the future holds for the two of us, only God knows. I should not think about it too much.
6. I should not expect too much from him.
7. I should love myself.
8. Pray harder!
In Control..
I can't believe that I was able to have the courage to blurt out what I really felt. And it felt good. I am a shy person and I always think before I speak. I'm scared of hurting the one i love. But this time, I was in control of the whole situation. He cannot treat me like a shit anymore. I deserve respect more than anything else. If he was offended from what I have said then I don't care anymore. He could take me or leave me.
But I think I've made the right move. He was very nice to me after that. We ended up having a good conversation. Sometimes, we girls need to be assertive over guys. We should not let them hurt us just like that. We need to be in command sometimes. We don't have to say yes all the time. We need to voice out our true feelings. It would surely boost our self-esteem and bring back our own worth.
So many questions...
I don't know why he asks me so many questions. This is not the first time he asked me hypothetical questions. I don't know what to think about it anymore. Is he making a survey? Did he asks so many girls about it? The weird thing about it, the question relates to his situation. How would I answer it? Why would I answer a question that might backfire to me? What is he thinking? But whatever it is, I answered his question base on my true state of mind and what I really think about it.
He was asking me will I accept the man I love who have kids and help him guide them? He is separated by the way. Why would he asked me? I'm not his girlfriend, anyway. Still, as a friend, I answered. So here's my answer. I told him that whoever the man I love loves I will surely love too. If he has kids then it is included in the package. As long as he has a good character and would treat me well and right all the time. The important thing to me is the attitude and character of a man. That is what really matters. I forgot to say that he should also really love me. He should be true and faithful to me too. He could then be worth it even if he has an excess baggage.
Changed of mind, changed of heart...
I'm the most stupid girl on earth, I think! I keep on hoping and expecting on someone to commit himself to me. I was doing this for a long time already. This has to stop. I think now is the right time. I have a changed of mind and a changed of heart. I don't want him anymore. I am tired of him. I don't have interest on him. He will remain my friend. But it will be just that. I've given him the chance to be with me but I guess he is not ready. No, he is just not that into me. Just like in the movie. No more excuses, no more alibis for me.
At least, I would not have a heartache. I will be free. Nobody imprisoned me anyway. I did that to myself. I allow myself to be hooked up on someone who is not hooked up on me. It is just a one-way feeling. I believe that there's always somebody out there who would love me truly. But for now, I have to enjoy what I have. I have my family and friends who constantly love me. That's enough for now. When the right man comes, he will surely comes.
I've been with this feeling on and off. I am in a roller coaster ride and so goes with my feelings. If will not let go now, I will hurt myself more. I am letting him go. Anyways, lots of blessings are coming my way. Life is good to me. I am happy about it. Love will surely come in very soon. Just thinking positive. =)
Hopeless Romantic No More!
I've met a new friend. He said that i am a hopeless romantic! That no one could change my mind. I'm fixed already because I am in love with someone. Maybe I am! I am in love with someone who doesn't love me back. Someone who just sees me as a friend. I was waiting for him in vain. I revolved my world around him. And that's the truth. I have to face this sad truth. I guess my new friend is right. If he really wants me or love me, he should have had me. I think that he really just sees me as a friend. No more no less! I'm so stupid! I think it's time for me to move on and move forward. Or else I'm gonna be stuck with no one. And I'm gonna grow old alone. I don't want that. I should try and open my heart and mind to other people who could be "the one" for me. Somebody who could give me the love that I really deserve and be happy.
I am not getting any younger anymore! I have to do this for myself or else time will pass me by. I guess somebody needs to slap me on my face about that so i can wake up and face the reality. I can do it. I believe i can. I deserve real love!
I would still keep the friendship and accept that it would be just that. He is not my prince that I thought he was. I was deeply asleep for the past 2 years. Waiting for him would only be a waste of time. There would be no justice to it. Enough of my craziness! I feel good now..
In love!
It's hard to keep a feeling that's inside me for the longest time. (sigh!) I want to shout to the whole world that i love him! I can't even tell my friends about it because from the start they don't like him. It's like I'm the only one sticking to him all this time. After all the heartaches I've experienced with him, still every time he comes back and say sorry, I allow him to enter once again into my life. Some of my friends think I'm stupid. That my feelings is not reciprocated. I don't know! I just feel that he has a good soul and needs a chance.
I'm happy that I've met a new friend in Gaye! She understands what I'm feeling! I want to be free and be happy on what I feel inside my heart. I want to enjoy this feeling! Love should make us happy and not sad right? I don't want to worry too much on what others may say. I appreciate their concerns about me. I know that they don't want me to get hurt. If this love will not have a happy ending at least I've given myself a chance to love someone.
He may not be the ideal guy for me. I don't like some of his traits. He irritates me. He annoys me. But he has his way of making me happy. I'm happy with him! No other guy has given me the kind of attention and care that he has given me. I don't know what tomorrow brings but for now i want to cherish this feeling. He may not know what i really feel for him because I don't have the intentions of telling him but at least I would stop denying it to myself! I am in love!
